Sometime in June 2025, Rumno and I went on a road trip to Uttarakhand. We hired a car in Delhi and stopped at Corbett, Mukteshwar, Kasardevi, a drive by Katarmal Sun temple and back to Haldwani and Delhi.
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Travel Stories - Kasar Devi Uttarakhand
Poem on Love and Loss - Ode to Mother
This poem is dedicated to my mother and is an expression of how it felt to visit home without her being there.
Both Sides of the Cupboard
The cupboard still smells of her.
Naphthalene and dried neem,
a faint line of Pond’s Cold Cream,
and the soap she cut into slivers
so nothing went to waste.
Some things are neat and folded like her sarees
Starched cotton in straight rows.
Important papers in old envelopes,
no labels, but she knew which was which.
Like she was readying the house
for a journey she wouldn’t name.
And some things are chaotic...like life.
Unfinished projects breathing in the dark.
Half a sweater on the needles,
one sleeve done, the other waiting.
Old books dog-eared, journals from aeons ago,
news cuttings about events, occasions,
the win many years ago.
Almond shells in a jar for no reason,
a soft toy with one eye gone,
plastic flowers that she never liked to throw.
The mess, that the untrained eyes see
actually feelings, emotions, occasions curated and stored
over years
is closer to home than clean ever was.
She has a lovely terrace.
Full of adeniums — fat-bellied, stubborn,
flowers blooming when the calendar says no.
Flowers that arrive uninvited,
as if they answer to her and not the year.
Pink and white and wrong-month red.
They lean toward her window now,
petals unsure of the quiet.
They bow when the wind moves
like she did when she bent to remove a dry leaf.
This is what remains of anyone
Not the shape, but the residue.
A scent held in wood. A way of saving string.
The terrace that kept her hours
long after her hands left the watering can.
We’re all just keeping time for each other.
Then the time keeps itself.
Things thin out. They don’t end.
They change rooms.
I shut the door soft.
And keep the smell in, for now
Some things you keep.
Some things you learn to carry.
The cupboard still smells of her.
The adeniums still count in her time.
So the house still has a mother —
neat and chaotic,
held for a while,
then set down, gently.
Art and the Need for Writing in this Day of Doom Scrolling and Artificial Intelligence
Write. That’s the keyword.
This article, while written by and for silver streakers, also holds value for youth (I think). Our generation is tentative in assuming truths.
With phones in our hands and the constant hum of TV in the background, the never-ending stream of WhatsApp messages, how we have forgotten the art and joy of writing!
Every person who loves reading wants to become a writer/
author, sometime. I know I do. But then the time never comes. And then one is
subjected to copycat AI-generated writings daily, which becomes the norm.
Finally, one forgets to hold a thought not shaped by others.
Are we letting our digits (as in fingers) go ineffectual by not using them to hold a pen or tap on words? Because “not” writing is easy? And the most important reason of all, the doubts – can I write at this age, and who will read my writing?
I dug a little into famous or beloved writers across ages. Remember the beautiful classic Black Beauty? Who hasn’t fallen in love with horses after that book? Anna Sewell was 57 when the book was published. She had a story to tell from her heart (her only book), and she wrote it.
Why Do I Need to Write
It is proven by multiple studies that writing improves
cognitive function, memory, and attention span. And those are the areas the silver
streakers are struggling with: attention span diluted by endless scrolling,
memory fogged by lack of activity and declining cognitive function brought on
by loneliness or illness.
Even though the keyboard is everyone’s best friend, handwriting takes writing to another dimension as it activates a broader network of brain cells. However, when one starts to write by hand, the shaky, barely
legible words make one give up the exercise before it even starts!
If there was a choice to remain agile in mind, imagination, and memory with just a little effort, wouldn’t one want to do that? Reduced neural plasticity is a term I came across frequently while researching how our lack of writing affects us. It’s a simple translation. Like your joints and muscles, which become stiff due to lack of use, the nerves, the cells that carry messages to and from the brain, become stiff or lose plasticity with age and lack of use. So, writing comes with the added benefit of improving neural plasticity or keeping our brains agile.
How Do I Start?
So, one can’t become a full-fledged writer overnight. But
one can write a few lines, maybe a shloka, a verse, a favourite poem. Or the
day’s events, the old-fashioned art of journalling. Thoughts flow when one
stops looking at the screen. Random thoughts, Thoughts, ideas, cumulated over
years of experience, life. Just imagine how many stories there would be to tell
of life.
It is even more important to pen them down before AI takes
over and makes our minds really numb. Just as we can’t find a place without
google maps, very soon we can’t pen a thought unless it is suggested and framed
by AI. All of us see it happening. And it will lead to faster and surer
deterioration of our mental faculties.
So why not just pick up a pen, block out the noise, scribble
a few words, daily? Small steps. Atomic habits. And then have the final laugh.
For the older generation needs to remain mentally fit and
fine. The youth need guidance and the use of our wisdom, even though they don’t
realise it and snicker at our stumbling speech and thoughts.
Age and Writing
Age is just a number. How many times have we heard this? Well, it is true. It is a big number of cumulative experiences, wisdom, and knowledge. So, when one is made to feel lesser or when the kids get impatient, condescending or laugh behind their hands when you forget something, one just needs to remember that age knows better. So WRITE down those big numbers of experiences and people and places and show them! After all, who would know Shakespeare or understand that age if he (or someone) hadn't written!
PS – Ruskin Bond published his autobiography “Lone Fox Dancing” at the age of 83, in 2017. Now at 91 years, he still writes daily.
Sanghamitra
Hei Phaguna Tume Song with Lyrics - Akhshaya Mohanty non - album song
If you are looking for a classic old odia song that shows longing and yearning for a lost love, "Hei Phaguna tume", would be right on top of the list. While "Phaguna" means spring, the song is an allusion to a loved one departing, leaving behind many memories.
The lyrics of the song Hei Phaguna Tume goes like this.
Hei Phaguna Tume
Gala pare pare
Aneka Jatana ethi (2)
Luha re lekhuchi....
Hear the song "hei phaguna tume" here.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2xup4-sdx0A
Download The Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy - Free eBook
The book the Power of your Subconscious Mind is one of the most powerful and most popular books written on the subject of the subconscious mind. Is there a Subconscious Mind? Is it within the power of a normal person to unlock these powers? What can your subconscious mind achieve? Murphy addresses all these questions. Is the subconcious mind same as the unconscious mind?
In our day to day quest to just live life, we hardly ever get to question our mind, scratch below its surface. The Power of your Subconscious Mind, written in 1963, does just that. the Subconscious Mind is a Mind Power book. Joseph Murphy spent some time among Indian sages studying Indian philosophy. He has other books related to the genre. Another book one can try out is "How to Attract Money" by Dr. Joseph Murphy.
Be careful while getting the book as there are many books with similar names. The actual name of the book is How to Unleash the Power of your Subconscious Mind.
If you are subscribed to Kindle Unlimited, you can download the book free over there. I got my copy from Kindle Unlimited.
When the Mountain Calls - Goechala Trekking
When the Mountain Calls, It Calls
Prelude
I had been secretly (and not so secretly) yearning
for a Himalayan trek for years. The information I got was either too much
(bombarded with ads) or too sketchy (never got into a detailed conversation
with people who did it). So when some friends registered for the Goecha La
trek, I tagged along (literally). I registered just a month and a half before
the trek. In the briefing a month before the trek we were given a picture scary
enough to freeze the souls of first time Himalayan trekkers, with never heard of terms like AMS,
HAPE, HACE, etc., of experienced trekkers not making it, of 4 nights in sub
zero temperature, a strict criteria to fulfill the fitness requirement.
What started for me was a fitness regime that would
have made any NCC cadet proud. Cardio, weights, jogging with weights, jogging
on incline, backpack and incline, with yoga thrown in for good measure. I hit
the full panic button. Till the body said a firm no! I decided it was better to
be able to go on the trek then being too sick and tired before it started. And
as a friend pointed out... It's just walking...
Yes 90 kms in a rough terrain climbing 9000 ft, but
still just walking!
Preparation
Whoever knew walking needed so much preparation?
Buying, renting poles, shoes, fleece, balaclava,
polar glasses, trail food, back pack, rainwear, and the list goes on and on.
Finally, thanks to online shopping, Decathlon, it all
seemed to align, the shoes, the layers, the jackets, the tiffin, rainwear,
socks, inners, balaclava, gloves for snow, rain, cold, trekking poles etc etc.
When one was allowed just a small kit bag for the mules, and a backpack to
carry, packing had to be just right, even if for 9 days!
The Trekking
It was a relief to finally start walking. After the
trepidation, the intense briefings, the health check ups, the gearing up, the
concern for AMS, HAPE, HACE, even leeches, it was satisfying to hit the trail.
The journey into the Kanchenjunga National Park
started and the first night halt was Sachen. What seemed quite difficult then,
turned out to be the easiest portion of the entire trek!
Everyone has their own pace in a trek. Like, their
own reasons for joining the trek. Falling behind, going ahead, doesn't matter.
It's a journey, to experience many things. Love for mountains, work stress,
life stress, ticking off bucket lists, love, physical fitness, communing with
nature, there are so many reasons, one undertakes a seemingly meaningless
journey. For there is nothing to achieve at the end of it. Nothing that can be
measured anyways.
Walking for hours amidst bird songs, rustle of
leaves, gentle mountain breeze, accompanied by the sound of the river, gurgling
brooks, waterfalls, time stood still, an abstract concept.
One step in front of the other, the next stop always
a little further than one would expect, one moved forward. Having seen 5
decades, I guess I was in no hurry unlike the youngsters. However, there were
some days I wished I didn't have such creaky joints. What a pleasure it would
have been to hop and skip over boulders and streams with a song on the lips.
Just taking in the views without a care in the world. Instead of straining to
reach the next camp, pausing for breath, counting steps, not even daring to
stop long, lest one fall behind too much. Every measured step was a step
forward. Every step up was a move up to reach the approx 14000 ft in over eight
days.
Mountains are dangerous places. There are too many
loose stones, missing steps, falling scree and narrow paths. A small misstep
could land the entire trek in jeopardy. There are many stories of missing or
injured trekkers. But it's the cost of reaching a place where very few go and
just get to gaze at the peaks from up close, sleep under the stars surrounded
by snow capped mountains.
The days moved on, as did the trek. From Sachen to
Tshoka, the rhododendrons made an appearance. But it was the snowy Magnolias
that took one's breath away. On the way was Bakhim. Perched on a cliff
overlooking glorious meadows, falls, streams and a circle of Magnolia trees,
Bakhim was as pretty as can be imagined. A steep climb took one to Tshoka.
Tshoka had one of the prettiest campsites, on a plateau, with a cute monastery
overlooking it and with a gorgeous view of the Pandim/ Kanchenjunga range. Magpies
were plenty around the campsite.
Tshoka to Dzongri was billed as the toughest day of
the trek. Tshoka to Phedang is known as the rhododendron trail. There seemed to
be more rhodos on the way down than on the way up, as they bloom in mid-late
April. Phedang is a plateau with a hut
and a momo shop. It's a junction in the mountains with trails leading to
Kokchurang, Bakhim and Dzhongri. It was our lunch stop both on the way up and
down.
The Ascent Continues
The air became thinner, the trail steeper from
Phedang. The rhododendron trees got dwarfer. The next pit stop after Phedang
was Deorali Top. Honestly I feel the top moved away every time one got closer!
One would have completed a steep ascent and the guide would point to a distant
mountain and say the Deorali point is at the top!! And Dzhongri, our campsite
for the night, was of course beyond that! It was the trail of the disappearing
trekkers for me! They all disappeared from sight one by one. Sometimes I would
catch a glimpse of yellow or red far far away and knew, well, they were
somewhere there. It was a solo trek, me and the sweeper guide.. a plod to the
top! Every bird sound, feature, rustle, trickle was an excuse to stop and
breathe! But I did capture some monals on my dying phone.
The best thing about mountains is that you never feel
alone. However high you go you see the colourful flags. They add a cheer, a
photo op, as they fly away. I feel Buddha is on the lookout for us, the
guardian of the mountains. I kept adding stones to the stone pyramids on the
way for a safe trek for everyone. From Deorali to Dzhongri was a small climb
and descent. We came across the first snow here. What a relief it was to see
the yellow tents of the Dzonghri campsite after the arduous day! And we had reached
14000 ft. There was one unfortunate case of AMS and the trekker had to return
overnight. AMS doesn't distinguish between experienced, inexperienced and from
what I gathered even trek leaders have been known to have AMS.
Dzonghri was an achievement as it was the highest
campsite for us. The next one at Thansing was at an altitude of couple of
hundred ft or so lower.
The Trekkers
What I truly believe after this trek is that trekkers
make the trip. It was a 24-member group and a "passionate about nature,
mountain nymph-like" trek leader. It was a pleasure to return to warm, happy conversation after a day of arduous trekking. The India Hikes support
team got to work after reaching, setting camp, providing hot water, hot snacks, and pitching tents. The trekkers mostly helped in the pitching of their own tents.
What shone through was the positivity that emanated
from everyone. From collecting garbage to following rules, to helping in camp,
to managing the trek, the group exuded warmth and dignity with a helpful
nature. There were morose trekkers, lonely trekkers, jolly trekkers, fast
trekkers, quiet and garrulous trekkers, fashionable trekkers, young, old and
the middle-aged... but all seemed to have a big heart. The number of times
people helped each other was unimaginable. I guess it had something to do with
being stranded in the mountains, with no communication. The few locals who had
shops mostly offered warm water without inhibition, which they had to carry
from the mountain streams in the morning! I, for one, was the largely solo
trekker reaching late to every campsite and finding the sunny yellow campsite
fully set up and my tent already pitched!
The Mountains
The next four nights were all about mountains.
Kanchenjunga and it's various peaks were laid out for us on a white pallette.
Dzongri Top is where one can get a 360 deg view of Kanchenjunga. A night trip
to the top to witness the sunrise was ethereal. The clouds obscured the sunrise
.. the view was nonetheless sublime. We
could see all the peaks, Kabru north and south, Pandim, Kanchenjunga,
Tenchengkhang, the Singlalia range and some more. The trek from Dzonghri to Thansing
was on some interesting landscape, on a ridge filled with sand walking
alongside the Kanchenjunga range of mountains, a steep drop to Kokchurang, and
then right along the Prek Chu river bed to Thansing. The next day the group
started at midnight to the View point while I gave it a miss and went to
Thansing Top some 1000 ft above. Locals say Thansing top has the most beautiful
views, however clouds again played spoilsport.
After four nights under the stars in frozen
temperatures, where the tents were covered with a layer of snow, the drinking
water frozen, and surreal, glowing
mountains in the backdrop, we started our journey back. The most memorable part
of the journey was the trek from Kokchurang to Phedang. It was like walking on
a never-ending fairyland! However, even
fairy lands become tedious when they go on and on! The return route was slightly
different from the ongoing route.
The Folklores and other things
When in the mountains, you cannot escape stories.
There was the resident ghost at Kokchurang, a dead tourist who couldn't be
evacuated on time. There were many such stories of tourists stranded, rescued
in the nick of time, carried on mules, carried on back and stretchers. The
sweep guide who was with me made two journeys evacuating people while we did
our trek. Such is the hardiness of the mountain guide. Even he was glad to lean
on a trekking pole when making the journey back.
The Rathong Chu and Prek Chu rivers were our constant
companions. The bridges over them formed some of the most beautiful backdrops
of the trek. Yaks, mules and horses crossing with their jingling bells were a
regular sight. These beautiful animals carried our tents and load over the
treacherous terrain. One can still hear their jingle sometimes at night. And
Nehika, our trek leader's voice saying, "Get up, get up, get up!"
One can only hope tourism stays limited and the
places preserve their unalloyed beauty for times to come.
Our Route
Yuksom - Sachen - Tshoka - Dzonghri - Thansing -
Tshoka - Yuksom
Other stops en route
Bakhim, Phedang, Deorali Top, Dzonghri Top,
Kokchurang, Thansing Top in order
Distance - 90 plus kms
Height - 14500 ft
Dates - April 2025
5 Things to do in the Morning - Health and Fitness Goals
Here are my Top 5 things to do in the morning for a healthy, happy and fit day.
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| A Black Kite from the window |
1. Listen to songs of nature. If you strain your ears in the morning, you will catch the tailorbird, babbler, sparrow, or drongo conversing, if you are lucky. Else there is the pigeon mynah or crow. A few minutes of listening to the titter and tatter sets a tranquil mood for the day. There are are other sounds of nature to catch too like the fall of leaves, rustle of wind or if you are lucky and near the coast, the breaking of the waves. So go ahead and find your songs of nature around you.
2. Sit quietly and reflect. Even a few minutes of absolute solitude helps set the tone for the day as one reaches out to one's core. It helps one figure out what is essential in life and what is not.
3. Observe a creature. This activity again connects us to other beings other than humans. Whether it is an early bird looking for a worm or a bee looking for honey, a wasp going about building it's nest, little fishes swimming about trying to grasp their feed or even a dog trying to eke out its territory, the activities of other beings is fascinating. You will find every activity is a means to an end.
4. Take an early bath. I have observed over the years that the people who do this have somehow more time and energy in their hands, are more disciplined and focused in their approach.
5. Mentally plan out the important activities for the day. A few minutes of planning for the day helps in having more time in your hands and important things getting done. Even a bad plan is better than no plan.
Odia Raja - Meaning and Significance | Banaste Dakila Gaja

Banaste Dakila Gaja, Barasa Ke Thare Asichi Raja,
Asichi Raja lo Gheni Nua Saja Baja... so the old Odia folksong on Raja goes.
The Raja festival is upon us. We know it and celebrate it as three days of fun, joy, celebrations, new clothes, home cooked pitha, preceded by days of shopping for new clothes and ingredients.
The Raja festival is the day of the year when the earth weeps tears of joy as its dry soil is drenched with the first monsoon rains. It is during the time of Mithuna Sankranti, which is when the first rains of monsoon strike Odisha. There is also an allusion to the menstrual cycle of young girls of age in the festivities that occur during Raja. While girls have their periods every month, Mother Earth has hers every year.
The festival is a tribute to mother Earth and she is given respite these days and not allowed to carry any burden. The traditional Odia family jobs of "kata", bata", "randha", "badha", "boha bahi" are spared to young girls these few days.
The Odia folk song Banaste Aila Gaja means this is the time when the Elephants meet to mate (maithuna) in the forests, elephants which are revered creatures in Hindu anthology and closely related to the Mother Earth.
On the first day of Raja (Pahali Raja) - young unmarried girls are not supposed to work or touch their feet to the ground. Thus the purpose of the swing so that the feet doesnt touch the groud. Girls deck up in jewellery and finery and enjoy the day on the swing or the cot, while having steamed and burnt delicacies like poda Pitha, and largely food that has not been cokked on hearth.
The day 2 of the Raja is considered to be the main festival. It falls on the day of the Mithun Sankranti. The girl is considered to be the "Rajaki" or like a princess, puts on alta and other finery.
The Day 3 of Raja is the basi Raja, where the young princess is again allowed to mix with everyone and come down from her throne (doli), take down her fineries.
The days are filled with fun and festivities, shopping, games and cooking competitions.
Looking back at the origins of the festival again;
The three days of Raja correspond to the three days of menstruation where women were said to be untouchables for social and hygienic reasons. As per the scriptures the women were Chandala (Untouchable), Brahmaghatini (hurting) and Rajaki on those days. Rajaki also meant a washerwoman, the day the woman cleans her soiled clothes. And the fourth day when finally the woman is considered to be clean or "Suddha" after taking her bath.
All the above are described in the "Rajaswala Dharma" or "Religious Duties of Menstruating Women" for women in our ancient texts.
I am heartily thankful for the modern day Raja celebrations without their primitive connotations!
Masai Mara Safari - Day 3 in the Wilds
We made our way back to the small airstrip the next morning bidding our goodbyes to the dancing Thomson gazelles (or dumsum gazelles as we heard our guide say), the shy warthogs, the observing giraffes, the elephants, the wise baboons, the sturdy zebras, knowing we would be back again.
Mara Wonders - Travel in Masai Mara
We have just returned from a Masai Mara trip.
We reached Nairobi from Mumbai in the early hours of the
morning. From there we went straight to the Wilson airport to catch a Safarilink
flight to the depths of the Mara. Safarilink operates many flights to and from
Nairobi to various airstrips in the Masai Mara Reserve Forest region. We were
taken to the Mushiara airstrip from where the vehicle from our resort and our
guide for the next few days were waiting for us.
The little plane gave us our first glimpse of the vast Masai Mara reserve. There was an incredible vastness with rivers looking like little channels interspersing the landscape, the mountain ranges bordering the huge stretches of savanna, herds of buffaloes, cows, elephants, zebras looking like toys, only the movement revealing them as wild creatures of the area.
The vehicle waiting for us was the hardy Land Cruiser which
we came to realise was exactly suitable for the wild terrain. The open sided
vehicle provided the right viewing experience as it went through ruts, muddy
banks, grass with ease. Apparently, it had a handy competitor in the Defender
from land Rover but we got to see mostly the Toyota vehicle in our forays into
the Reserve Forest during "Game Drives" as they were called. Our
guide and driver introduced himself proudly as being from the Masai
tribe. Not surprisingly, he had a deep knowledge of the landscape and its
inhabitants. He shared insights about animal behaviours, tracked movement with
other drivers and rangers, and guided us to the best spots for wildlife
viewing. At times he reminded us of the "trackers" in the vampire
Twilight series! Masai Mara gets its name from the Mara River and the Masai
tribe, the custodian of this part of the wilderness.
On the way back to the resort itself we got to see the our
first "game". I guess the term "game" comes from the
creatures being games for hunters. Thankfully hunting is banned now. And what a
rich cornucopia of untamed wilderness we encountered just on this first journey
of the safari! As we crossed the gate of the reserve, we found Zebras drinking
water from the spring crossing the road. By the third day of the safari, we
were as accustomed as we could be to greet Zebras wherever we looked, in herds,
playing, running, grazing. As per our guide about 3 million zebras and wildebeests
cross over during migration.
We came across Pumbas (warthogs, called so, thanks to
Disney). They were by far the shyest and smartest creatures we saw, forever
wary and looking about for dangers.
We were lucky enough to see giraffes and a herd of elephants
really close up on the drive back to the resort. The land cruiser lived up to
its expectations as the guide drove us through the shrubs right next to the
giraffes and elephants. One must feel the experience to understand it. Right in
the forest reserve of East Africa, wild elephants, and giraffes almost within
touching distance, grazing, moving around, slightly wary, but not really
bothered, from an open all terrain safari vehicle.
The day's wonders were not yet over. Our camp was right next
to the Mara River. We settled down and had tea on the lawns watching Hippos and
even a sun-bathing crocodile on the other bank of the river!
In Meryl Streep's word in "Out of Africa". It is a
real gift, the forest, a glimpse of the world through God's eyes, as
intended...
The day's sightings included the zebras, hippos, elephants,
wild buffaloes, giraffes, wildebeests, many of the antelope family like elands,
Topis, Thomson's gazelles, Grant's gazelles, impalas, warthogs, dik-diks, and
even a lone crocodile amongst others. It took us a couple of days to
distinguish the various animals and there were many other small ones pointed
out by the guide.
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